Dear Family and Friends,
Today is September 1st. We have been in Hungary about 10 days now. We have spent these first 10 days adjusting
to the many changes. We have adjusted our
bodies to the new time, our stomachs to the new food, adjusted our spending to
the new budget, and our living to the small apartment, (33 m2 or 330
ft2). The language and
culture adjustments will continue for the full year for each of us. I love being back here. Returning to Hungary reawakens so many memories
from having lived here from 1988-1994. A
part of me comes alive here in Hungary. Yet, since we are in a new town, Balatonfüred, I am enjoying new experiences
and the pleasures of a small, old town on Lake Balaton. Tammy has found that her language ability is
better than she thought and she has been pleasantly surprised at her ability to
communicate. She loves the opportunity
to simplify our lives for a year. We
have reconnoitered the town and know where to get food and supplies. (Late summer and early autumn are the best
seasons for the best of Hungary’s
fruits and vegetables, peaches, plums, peppers, tomatoes, grapes.) The kids are doing wonderfully. I am overwhelmed with their positive
attitudes and their willingness and eagerness to learn Hungarian. After recovering from the first days’
exhaustion, they have been eager for every adventure we have put to them. They have been willing to go everywhere with
us. They have patiently sat with people
even though they can’t really speak to those around them. Yet, they find many ways to engage and
interact. They ask us how to say this or
that in Hungarian and then go up to people and ask them.
Yesterday,
we attended our first school function, the school year’s opening ceremony. All students at the school, 135 of them in
grades 1-8, gathered in the gymnasium wearing white shirts and black pants or
skirts. The students from previous years
wore their school scarves or neckties.
There were three poems recited by students about saying farewell to
summer and hello to the new school year.
The school principal spoke and so did the assistant. Parents then went off with the students to
each of the classes to hear the plan for the Thursday and Friday of the first
week. I accompanied one of the kids, and
Tammy went with the other one. Both were
very patient and attentive, obviously not understanding any of the words, but
figuring out what was going on by intense observation. Today they will have time to get to know
their classmates and have a small introduction to some of their courses. On Friday they will go on field trips. Grades 1-4 will take a hike and grades 5-8 will
have a bike ride. Both kids expressed
having butterflies in their stomachs going to school this morning, but there
are teachers at the school who speak English and many of their classmates are
eager to get to know them. I write this
letter as I wait for the end of their school day.
The school
system here is much more standardized across the nation than in the US. The students grades 1-12, throughout the
nation all start school on September 1st. Their textbooks in grades 1-8 reflect a
national curriculum. Their school
supplies are even standardized. When we
shopped at a large Costco-type store last week we saw many students consulting
posted lists of school supplies unique for each grade. There are different types of notebooks that
the students buy for different grades.
The lined notebooks have different sized spacings depending on whether
the student is in 1st, 4th or 7th grade. Students in higher grades have notebooks with
graph paper for mathematics. When
students move to high school they begin to specialize in their studies, either
applying to a “technical” high school that will prepare them for a job when
they finish 12th grade or applying to a “gymnasium” which will
prepare them for university.
We have
worked out some of our logistics. We
have a cell phone now. You can reach us
by dialing 011-36-30-351-9817. The first
three numbers gets you an international line.
The “36” is Hungary’s
country code. “30” is the cell phone
network and the last seven numbers make up our phone number. Please, remember when calling that we are 6
hours ahead of the East Coast and 9 hours ahead of California.
We will turn our phone off at night.
Since we are living in Balatonfüred and the kids are going to school 10 miles away in Veszprém, we have decided that we will
need a car after all. We have found an
11-year old Passat that we will buy from Emil’s mechanic. The purchase of the phone and the car
depended on our registration as foreign residents, a process that is a bit like
applying for a “green card” in the US.
We successfully acquired our “tartozkodási engedélyek-et” yesterday, Wednesday, Aug. 31.
We think of
what is going on in the US
right now both nationally and locally with you.
We are saddened by the bits and pieces we hear about the terrible
destruction and loss of life in Louisiana
due to the recent hurricane. We also
know that many are preparing for the opening of school, saying goodbye to
summer. We send our warmest
greetings. Fortunately the differences
of life here and the immediate demands of for our adjustment keep us from
terrible homesickness. We miss you and
pray for you.
With
love,
Bob
(for all the Auses)